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For any who are in recovery, but hang out mostly here (as I do), wanted your input on this thread:<BR> <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum31/HTML/000883.html" TARGET=_blank>http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum31/HTML/000883.html</A>
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Ouch,<P>It seems like you guys aren't around lately. Maybe that's why the board has been pretty down.<P>Peppermint, Lostva, K, Oh_My Marie, anyone?
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Cindy,<BR>I agree with what you said because it has to do with us being human.<P>I struggle as well but I take credit only for listening to God. I know that I am incapable of doing what it takes on my own to help my W through her pain some of which I caused unknowingly. My W does not know about any of the principles. I am doing all alone without her playing by the rules.<P>I continue because I know she is God's gift to me. I continue because I love God for giving her to me. In loving her I love myself. He gave her to me to be my life long companion and to allow us to be parents.<P>It is a struggle because I go through my moments of wanting to be as selfish as she was and still is to a degree. I pray for her daily because it is in her, our boys, and lastly my best interest.<P>------------------<BR><B><I>God Bless,<BR>Rob</I></B><BR> regilmor@swbell.net
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Cindy:<P>I've hesitated posting on your thread, because although I consider us a success story, it's not unqualified. And the "romantic" love that needs to be created is still an issue, and one that we both are struggling with...<P>However, that doesn't mean that I'm not fully supportive of the concepts. And I'll get around to posting over there... promise!
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