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Just wondering what some other people thought about this subject.<P>Found out the W may have had some inappropriate oline activities (I did'nt want any details) <BR>in addition to the things I already knew about. ![[Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]](http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/frown.gif) <P>Input?<P>Jason<P>[This message has been edited by unseen2 (edited December 07, 1999).]<p>[This message has been edited by unseen2 (edited December 07, 1999).]
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unseen2 -- You are not alone in this. Many of us have dealt with our spouse having internet affairs. In many ways they can be more devastating than a physical affair.<P>I actually found out about my W's internet affairs before I found out about her physical affair. I thought I was going to die. To this day, I do not know how many people were involved, but at one point I knew of at least 20 different E-Mail address she had for these people. I actually saw E-Mails from three different people.<P>It's hard, but surviving this type of infidelity can be accomplished by using the same steps and techniques as in a physical affair. In otherwords, No LoveBusters, Communication, Meeting each others Needs, etc.<P>I hope this helps.<P>God Bless
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My H has-is having an online affair with a married woman...this is just as devastating, perhaps more than a physical relationship, since it is based on what is written and not appearance...it is very wrong, but marrriages can be restored after.<P>------------------<BR>Susan<P><BR>
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Anyone else??<P>please<P>Jason
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unseen2,<P>My W's Internet affair (chatroom) lead to the physical affair...<P>Both were devastating... <P>Jim
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I too discovered my W having an email affair, but...it went to a meeting. I thank God that he allowed me to be suspicous enough to go into her email and read it. See...I created a hotmail account for her months ago...never thinking I would have to snoop. Thank God I did! They had had one meeting that had some hugging, kissing, minor fondling...and lots of phone calls. The OM is a dad on one our kids sports team. So now we get to see him weekly. But my W ended it, ask forgiveness, and I also spoke with the OM and he too was very remorseful, he is also Married. Its over, but sure am uneasy about this season!<BR><P>------------------<BR>jnvc
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Hi, <P>Just wanted to see if I could get anymore input.<P>It seems to be that most view it as bad or worse as a physical affair. Just wanted to see what the general consensus was.<P>Thanks to all who posted.<P>Jason<p>[This message has been edited by unseen2 (edited December 08, 1999).]
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