I ordered several items from victoris secret yesterday and was wondering if I should model them for my husband the next time I see him? I was going to send him a picture of them and say I would model them when he was ready....what do you all think?<P>amanda<P>------------------<BR>I will love my husband "Always & Forever"<BR>

please guys I need some opinions....<BR>amanda<P>------------------<BR>I will love my husband "Always & Forever"<BR>

Well - send ME the pictures, and I'll give you my opinion! Just kidding - I read your profile, and what I do know is that men tend to be very visual creatures. Modeling something out of Victorias Secret should get the motor going...if that is your objective.

Go for it, bring back the spark <P>That sort of thing always works for me <P>Jason

I don't know much about your situation, but it looked like you wanted some input. How about just giving him a hint and then plan a romantic dinner and surprize him with dessert!! Just an idea. Monique

thanks guys.....I have lost about 30lbs and am the size I was when we met....depression has it's good points ha ha ha

well I would love for a surprise get away but currently we are in different states so i dont know how that will work....I am hoping he will come here for x-mas.....but i have said I am will to go there(me and kids)<P>------------------<BR>I will love my husband "Always & Forever"<BR>

I would say it REALLY depends on his mindset.<P>If he is not willing to be involved, then it's not such a good idea. If he is expressing his willingness toward the relationship, that's another matter.

MIRICLE WIEGHT LOSS PLAN!! <P>Worked for me too, lost 20lbs<P>Jason<P>

Amanda<P>It all depends on why your husband is is having doubts about the marriage.<P>What I can say that this always worked wonders for me when my wife modeled as I'm sure it would for most men (usually tied up with one of their most basic emotional needs).<P>Hope this helps!<P>regards Fairenough

avance,<P>When I first posted to you welcoming you Dec 1st I said start immdiately on <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi8113_ab.html" TARGET=_blank>Plan A</A>.<P>If you have... there is nothing wrong with putting deposits into his <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi3200_love.html" TARGET=_blank>Love Bank</A>. There may come those days when withdrawals come fast and furious. If it doesn't affect you badly... taking away from you own feelings... then <B>absoluely</B> model! There is almost nothing more beautiful to a man than the one loving him showing her affection to him in this way. The only thing more beautiful to me is when my W was pregnant... but I won't go there... maybe you shouldn't either... <P>But do model...<P>Jim<BR>---------------------------------<BR>Where two or more are gathered...

A....<BR>I also bought so nice things when my H and I were split up but I did not model them. Actually I just left them hanging on the top of the door and he saw them when he came over.<P>He was very curious... asking where I got them and I think what puzzled him more was not seeing me in them but just seeing them on the hanger... made him wonder why I had them if I was not wearing them for him.<P>I believe if you model them for him, that you may appear desperate and that in my opinion would not be good.<P>Genie<P>p.s. We both have really enjoyed those teddies during our recovery.<p>[This message has been edited by Genie29 (edited December 08, 1999).]

Men like women who want to be sexy "for them". Your posts suggest that you really love your husband. Regardless of the situation, if you truly feel like modelling for him it will likely not hurt, but rather get him either excited or thinking. At worst, and be prepared for this, he may seem to reject your efforts either vocally or with body language because of guilt or anger surrounding your marital situation at the moment. But then, that depends on the situation. Still, even if that happens, as long as you understand what's going on, your message to him will non-the-less be delivered -- you love him and want to please him. He won't be able to ignore that message, even if he somehow keeps it to himself.

thanks for all the advice......I have a phone councel with harley tomorrow........we will seee how that goes..<BR>amanda<P>------------------<BR>I will love my husband "Always & Forever"<BR>

Did you ever see the commercial where the guy is in an important meeting and his wife calls and asks him to come home for lunch? He says he can’t because it’s a very important meeting. She tells him to look in his briefcase. He opens it, pulls out a picture, his eyes almost pop out, tells everyone in the meeting it’s an emergency & runs out the door.<P>------------------<BR>Prayers & God Bless!<BR>Chris<BR>For relationship info check out <A HREF="http://www.pcisys.net/~chriscal1/resources.html" TARGET=_blank>Marriage & Relationship Resources</A>

chris(ca123)<BR>I like your idea about the picture but his meeting is in ca and I am in az <P>------------------<BR>I will love my husband "Always & Forever"<BR>

Just to answer your question - It always worked when my W did that for me! (Long time since, too long!) Regards and blessings,<P>--Wex