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#393753 08/09/00 07:59 AM
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<A HREF="http://www.keirsey.com/" TARGET=_blank>http://www.keirsey.com/</A> <P>Many of us old timers took this many months ago. I am an INFP...The Healer, which my personal description would be an easy going, but kind of sensitive marshmellow with a surpising core of steel that is uncompromising on values. Hmmm...ya think?<P>My H is ISTJ, The Inspector...almost as far from my type as you can get, although we both share the introversion.<P>Anyway, it is easy and enlightening and free to take the questioneer. Try it if you want [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com] <P>

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I am INFP too. My H is INFJ, if I recall correctly....

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I am INFP also, and my husband is ESTJ. My son is ESTJ. <P>We took these tests about 3 or 4 times now, and our results keep coming back the same. I think the last time was about 2 months ago, when we all decided to test our 7 year old... I am NOT surprised that he tested out the same as my husband!!!<P>Anyway, I can't remember where we found the children's test... But it is really helpful to take the test, and to become aware of our differences. Our differences are something that need to be respected, embraced and appreciated, and realize that it is our differences that help make us a more "complete" family. If we were all the same, or if I was out of the equation with H and Son, there wouldn't be balance! <P>So, it takes a lot of learning - to learn HOW to compliment our personalities, and not fight over them.<P>TNT

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Another INFP reporting in.

#393757 08/09/00 08:11 AM
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This is scarey.....<P>A lot of INFP's here on MB - Now, where is Chris? Really Scarey... We need more balance or we will only be running around and fixing each other hahahahaha how boring<P>TNT<p>[This message has been edited by trustntruth (edited August 09, 2000).]

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Gee, I'm an INFP too.<P>I read that only about 1% of the population are healers. Maybe we're all here at MB! LOL<P>Mitzi [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]

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Thanks FHL,<P>Last time someone posted this, my modem was messed up and I couldn't do it.<P>I'm a healer too! I'll have to get my h to take it. I'm sure he too will be on the other side of the spectrum.

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Oh man, no wonder we all seem "normal" to us. This is just too weird. I remembered you and Chris, TNT [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]

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I make no claims to being 'normal'. The rest of you are, though. [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]

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HA HA HA HA HA<P>We are IN TROUBLE NOW!!~!! ha ha ha<P>oh my gosh.... <P>Throw everything we've learned in the last year or so out the door! We are talking to mirrors!!!!<P>Next time I post a thread when I need help - I am going to say INFP's DO NOT REPLY ha ha ha ha ha!!!<BR>

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I am an INFP. I would have never guessed. I would have liked to think of myself as a more hardcore person, because I know my husband respects this.<P>As a leader in the military, I saw this. I had personal strength and courage for myself, but when it came to telling other people what to do, it was a huge challenge for me. I was more of a "mom" or "sister" to the guys in my platoon than "Sergeant." They took what I had to say with a grain of salt jobwise--but they liked me and I liked them on a personal basis. That's why I say that I had more than plenty of opportunity to do what he did.<P><p>[This message has been edited by Bernzini (edited August 09, 2000).]

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I'm an ESTJ and I think H is INFP - which explains two things... 1) why he and I have such a hard time understanding where the other is coming from, and 2) why the people on this board are so insightful when I am trying to figure out what's up with him!!!<P>periwinkle

#393765 08/09/00 10:04 AM
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I'm an ISFJ, a protitive gaurdian. For some reason that doesn't seem to fit me though since I'm the one who had the affair. I'll take it again later to see if I get the same results

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TNT,<P>Talking to mirrors...ROFLOL. That is too funny! I haven't laughed in awhile...<P>So we have a bunch of INFPs.<P>Yep, looks like the whole 1% of the population is right here!<P>But seriously, I don't think we are anyomre susceptible to infidelity. I think we're just the ones who love to come here and analyze it all to death...<P>And what's wrong with mirrors???<P>It helps to see ourselves more clearly.<P><BR>

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I'm an ENTJ (Field Marshall). My wife is a ISFJ (Protector). <P>hopeful1771: My W had the A and she came out the same type as you. I guess in some way, she thought she was helping OM.

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Up from Here:<P>I'm not feeling so inadaqte. I thought that noone who was in the same group as me made mistakes like this.

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I am also an NF - INFJ (also 1% of the population). I think it is true that NF's are very relationship oriented and we like to analyze also, hence so many showing up here. My oldest daughter is an INFP - similar to me, except she is fairly messy and does procrastinate.<P>Husband is ISFP. Be interested to know if there are any other ISFP males out there.

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Grrr...<P>messy? No, the INFP may be Domestically Relaxed because our distain of the mundane, but messy is such a yucky term, really.<P>procrastinate? Us INFP'erss are just reluctant to close the door to any possibility...ever. Hmmmph<P> [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com] [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com] [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com] [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com] [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]

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Okay... here it is!! [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P><BR>temperment: idealist<BR>character style: Teacher.. eNFj<P><BR>hmmmmm interesting.<P> [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<BR>mercy<p>[This message has been edited by mercy (edited August 09, 2000).]

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FaithHopeLove,<P>Sorry, I didn't mean to imply all INFPs are messy - my daughter is a teenager, so that might have something to do with it. <P>On one of the personality sites it states one of the ways to love INFPs is: "don't nag me about my messes" (something like that). She likes to point that out to me now. Trouble is a way to love me states: "help me keep my house organized". So, I don't bug her about her room, but don't like the rest of her things all over the house. Maybe a better way to look at it is "organization". (Hope I didn't step on any more toes here).<P>forgot to mention: INFJ - the Counselor<p>[This message has been edited by siftedlikewheat (edited August 09, 2000).]

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