Ok - we all know that an A is an addiction, right? I have already posted my story, but for those of you who did not read it, I am the WS. I have recently decided (took me long enough, right?) that I need to concentrate on saving my marriage. The problem is, I have discovered another addiction! You see... I'm addicted to...<P>THIS WEB SITE!!! <P>I can't tell you how much time I have spent here at MB over the last few months, especially the past week. I love my H, and want to once again become the woman he loves and can trust. Reading about all of the different experiences on here, and reading all of your replies and advice to me has helped me immensely. <P>I just wanted to thank you all for being willing to share your pain, guilt, frustration, and love with all of us. <P>lost_in_love<p>[This message has been edited by lost_in_love (edited August 14, 2000).]

Lost in Love -<P>I feel the same way - feel like I traded one addiction for another one As a ws, coming on this site has helped me so much - and if someone can learn from my mistakes, all the better. Keep posting, it really is therapuetic. . .I learn a lot from the BSs, and reading the posts from the WSs helps me to feel that I am not alone in this mess.<P>Take care - I wish you ALL the best in reclaiming your marriage. I'm happy that you decided to take that enormouse first step !

I think this is a "good" addiction. <P>I wish I could get my WS to come here! However, with all that I have learned here in the past month, I feel I have the tools necessary to save my marriage, whenever she decides she wants to save it too.<P>I wish you all the luck in the world.<BR>