K,<P>I'm new to this forum and have read much this past week. Today I've finally piped up and asked for input. Rather than re-type all the info on our situation again, please, if you have a minute or two, go to Pregnancy/Baby and look under now what. I am SW and wonder if you have any information you can add to the pot. Just Learning has given some very good advise as has catnip and other's good input. It seems as if you are in and have been in the same situation as my husband now and he really needs someone to talk to. We live in a very small town and other than the counselor we have been going to I think he needs the "guys" side of things. We both love each other very much and really want to try to work this out, but he isn't sure how to get past some of his feelings. I've been trying to help the best I can considering that it was I who caused this issue and this terrible hurt he is feeling. I feel so torn apart and guilt and shame cannot even express all my feelings.<P>Any help would be most appreciated. You seem gifted with info and advise.<P>thanks,<P>SW

I did post over on your other thread.<P>I'll be on vacation for the next 10 days or so, but I'll check in when I return.