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If anyone needs software to see if his/her spouse is cheating online, check out the following website:<P> <A HREF="http://cgi.ebay.com/aw-cgi/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=215276817" TARGET=_blank>http://cgi.ebay.com/aw-cgi/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=215276817</A>
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Thanks, Sweetpea. Spector looks better than the other keystroke loggers I've looked at. Regards and blessings,<P>--Wex
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hey that software works....though I didnt use it on my husband I just had a free rial that came from somewhere and I tried and it really works....<P>------------------<BR>I will love my husband "Always & Forever"<BR>
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Boy, wish I would have had this a few months ago...<P>Using WinNT now can lock up the comp tight if need be.<P>Still....hmmm<P>Thanks<P>Jason<P>
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Yes, me too , wishing Ihad this awhile back.<BR>But one thing S Harley says....never totally<BR>trust your mate, and vise versa, we are vulnerable if the love bank is low! I am going to get the software as insurance. I got teenagers too!
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This looks great. But...<P>Do the ethical considerations make anyone uncomfortable? I personally struggle with the urge to snoop. Yet this feels like a secret I am keeping from my W - thus a double standard.<P>What do you think?
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Just as a reminder...<BR> <BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Privacy isn't something that improves marriages, It's honesty and openness that improves marriages. (page 41 of <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi6070_sa.html" TARGET=_blank>"Surviving An Affair"(SAA)</A>)<HR></BLOCKQUOTE>...<P>But it goes both ways... if you expect your S to be monitored... allow yourself to be monitored as well! Hard thought huhhh!<P>btw... I used "WinGuardian"... it works in stealth as well!<P>Jim
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I tried the Stealthlogger program and it worked wonders. While this type of monitoring of your spouse is not quite kosher, it is definitely necessary at times. My H is in the lying end of an affair. He says its done, but I can see that he's still writing to her. Thus I can change how much of my heart I give to him right now. As a good point though, I am able to read exactly what he is writing her - his hopes, his desires, what he wants to do, and I am able to magically know where to focus my energies with him. He says he loves long walks with her, I take him to the park for a walk, etc.
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