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Figured out why H wants Divorce now, even tho he isn't sure
#39547 12/08/99 07:01 PM
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I keep trying to figure out why he is in a hurry if I am not. He isn't sure and implies getting back together if he decides he has made a mistake. <P>Here's the reason... We are in IL - infidelity is not punished (so to speak) We are both moving back to SC - Aldultry is BIG money for me there and he knows that. He is worried about financial gains for himself. Some people never change. He can still put that above his child. That is definetly selfish!<P>UNREAL!
Re: Figured out why H wants Divorce now, even tho he isn't sure
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dhj,<P>Well, H might be pushing and in a big hurry, but you don't have to just fall in line with that. You can do what others have done - take your time. I don't know for sure, but I guess your H can eventually get the D, but still, you don't have to just go along with what he wants so easily. Think about you and your child! Thinking of you......<P>Roll Me Away<P>------------------<BR>"Life is made up, not of great sacrifices or duties, but of little things in which smiles and kindnesses and small obligations, given habitually, are what win and preserve the heart and secure comfort."<P>Sir Humphry Davy<BR>
Re: Figured out why H wants Divorce now, even tho he isn't sure
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ive been following your saga, and i always kept my fingers crossed that the move would be a fresh start for you guys. what a shame! yeah, stall him, your son deserves every penny...and then some.<BR>ugh!<P>------------------<BR> <A HREF="http://www.alladvantage.com<BR>ID#" TARGET=_blank>www.alladvantage.com<BR>ID#</A> atp-113<P>

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