When I found out H name I called him. He told me he was done with W - she was supposed to be filing for D if she did not he would be. He told me about them bribing S to stay with them and him wanting to change school districts. He was nice and answered my questions and told me I could call back. That was 2 weeks ago.<P>I have heard that now S wants to stay with his father and not change school districts. Should I call to verify this? I also think things are not as rosy as H wants me to believe and I thought her H might know from the S.<P>I want to ask if divorce proceedings have been started yet. And if he could shed any other light on the subject.<P>Should I call or just keep in my plan A and wait to see how things go? H is still angry and confused. They both work a 2nd job and extra hours. He is not happy and he is going to have less time for his D.

It doesn't hurt to be in alliance with OW H. some may disagree with me and consider it a major LB but I think its ok.<P>I'm really good friends with OW#1 H. We talk via internet every day. We have alot in common to talk about we were both cheated on. Only now I've been cheated on twice, but we both are raising our kids alone. H and OW H were good friends to until OW#2 came along. There is no connection between us at all. We can just whine to eachother everyday about our lonliness ect.