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#396969 08/29/00 02:24 PM
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Howzit Leilana,<P>Thanks for the all of your hard work, but I'm afraid you got my birthday wrong. M birtdate is Jan. 25, 1959 and my husbands's is July 8, 1954. I believe his Cancer/Horse is correct.<P>I'll wait for your corrections. Thanks so much again for all you do here for the rest of us.<P>Mahalo!<BR>

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Ugh! I think I'm trying to do too many in one day! I messed up royally on yours! Even with the 23 day mix up I should never turned you into a Monkey--I'm not sure where I went wrong. Yours was my last for the day and I guess I was trying to rush it out for you.<P>You are an Aquarian/(Earth)Dog! <P>You did sign that non-responsibility waiver, didn't you? [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>I am so sorry, sdn! Glad you caught it. That's kind of why I started repeating the dates back in my responses. <P>O.K. Now let's see what this does for your compatibility with your Cancer/(Wood)Horse H--7/08/54--at least that hasn't changed...<P>Horse with Dog: (The compatiblities are generic--they don't take into account who is male or female, whether one of you is Aquarian, Cancer, Earth or Wood)<P>If this pair hires a nanny and a housekeeper, a laundress and a cook, they can probably establish a very sound love relationship. Neither of these two effective, active, project-oriented people is enchanted by a career as a horse drudge or nose-wiper, staying at home waiting for the other to appear. <P>Horses are characteristically profligate with money. They gamble it away and take chances others would not. This risky trait fills the nervous Dog with fear. The Horse hates to be reminded of profligacy but the sarcastic Dog cannot keep quiet for long. Fights - yes, I said <I>fights</I> ensue. <P>As harmony reigns in their bedroom, these two usually end up better friends after vibrant lovemaking sessions wherein each bestows laish pleasure on the other. The Dog is giving and the Horse is loving. It's a good sexual match. [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>The lovemaking may be salutary but what will ultimately hold this pair together is their deep respect for each other's integrity. They are mutually honorable people with a refined sense of social conscience and loyalty. Time will round off whatever sharp angles this pair encounters. A durable, solid relationship is assured. [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com] [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>I like! I like!!<P>Other Earth Dogs: Michael Jackson, Jamie Lee Curtis, Kevin Bacon, Daley Thompson.<BR> <BR>You are full of charm. Earth Dog can seduce the leaves off the trees. You are diffident, composed and know how to listen. You are kindly and understanding of other, more involved complex and chatty people. The Earth Dog is supple of mind and for a stubborn Dog, remarkably willing to bend your ways to fit any given situation. <P>This is confusing--Dogs are known for their "bite"--not a mean bone in their body but they can give quite caustic remarks, can be tactless and frank. They can be grumpy. Being an "Earth" Dog makes you the most mellow of that breed--quiet and soulful--thin-skinned and artistic... But being an "Aquarian" Dog makes you critical and feisty and you can be rash and cruel. I'd really like to know if these contradictions are cancelling eachother out somehow!<BR> <BR>All Dogs are known to be the world's best worriers.<P>They are also the world's caretakers--you are attracted to those less fortunate or who need you.<P>In love the Aquarian Dog is attracted to messy emotional situations and lost souls. You usually attach yourself to romantic situations heavy with impending complications. You may try to marry someone to try to save them from alcoholism, fail and end up bitter and complaining. You<BR>may be attracted to someone already involved in a messy and mixed up relationship. You complicate your life but you thrive on it.<P>If someone loves a perplexing Aquarian Dog, it is suggested that they themselves must be fairly looney! Aquarius Dogs are mightily attractive. But they seek out deranged people! If they are very apple-pie normal, forget it. But if they manage to become an overnight drug addict, or pretend to suffer from the interference of voices on their balcony or emanating from a back tooth, they'd be just about irresistible to the Aquarius Dog. In any case, unless they enjoy domestic spats, they will be required to pledge unswerving allegiance to their Aquarius Dog's quirky ideals. <P>There you go! So if I tell you I was stoned out of my gourd and my goldfish told me you were a monkey and that's why I messed up, you'd forgive me?! [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>Let me know if I got it nailed this time, OK? I'll look back on this thread later.<P>Aloha and mahalo, sdn!<P>Leilana

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Hey Leilana,<P>Everything was almost on the money. But, regarding money, he is very budget wise, saves, and invests well for retirement. Other than that, most of it pretty good.<P>This is pretty interesting! Thanks, Leilana.<BR>Hope you don't have too many of these to do!<P>Take care, sdn

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So the money part wasn't on the money? [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>Yeah, I have the same problem with my sign--I'm supposedly shopping at Cartier's and Dior every week--but I'm the one making the investments and doing all the banking and 401k planning and budgeting. I would love to have married a millionaire and done the Zsa Zsa Gabor thing but I was trained to be financially independant by my father who said "Never make yourself financially dependant on a man". My Dad brought me up in a way to overcome my "Libra/Snake" tendencies. I was such a girly-girl and he made me tough in true U.S. marine fashion. I didn't have a childhood, I had bootcamp!<P> Our experiences and choices mold us. <P>(But I still HAVE to have my monthly pedicures! [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com])


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