This year OP will not be traveling to meet the rest of the family (a big Italian family) because the daughter wants to be in town. W wants OP over here with us- as another friend since we always invite friends who don't have a family to spend X-mas with.<P>(YUK!) WHAT DO YOU THINK?<P>ThisAlex<P>PS: I'm under so much stress, W asking for things I never thought ANYONE would ever ask me.<P>------------------<BR>If someone hurts you, betrays you or breaks your heart, forgive them because they have helped you learn about Trust and Awareness.

ThisAlex -- In a word . . . <B>NO</B><P>I'm sorry, but that is just inconsiderate even suggesting such a thing.<P>God Bless

Thanx. I know... no way... when I wrote that I had just arrived after dining out w/ W and some friends, after dinner she said she was coming home "later"... (hasn't come back as yet). I got home and had one more drink that turned to be one too many... what's going on? I was so sure yesterday, feeling soo good, so positive. Stupid question.<P>ThisAlex

ThisAlex<P>Almost unbelievable, do they ever stop and think of the pain they are inflicting by making such suggestions.<P>I had a similar offer from my W for me to come around Xmas day whereby she is having OM and his Mother around for Xmas lunch at her apartment. Can you imagine, they really are off the planet!!<P>I think you know my feelings on the subject.<BR>Regards<BR>Fairenough <BR>

TA,<BR> NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NONO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NONO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO

<BR>AND NO.<P>

Another big NO.<P>Lori

PLEASE HELP's (Frank's) response is a <B>gross</B> understatement of what my response would be!<P>Jim

ThisAlex<P>Have you considered a parcel bomb? ......... <BR>Sorry it was just a thought.<BR>

<BR> N F W<P> NO ... WAY<P> WOW, it's amazing what a spouce in the grips of infidelity will come up with.<P> Bill<P>------------------<BR>BB<BR>

I am a woman, but. What kind of offer is that? NO NO NO NO:

i concur.

Have to tell you that last year I did have the OW over for X-mas! Made her and her H this big dinner, crown roast pork and all that with cranberry stuffing and good stuff. Suspected strongly at that time she was more than just after my H but had him but couldn't prove it. She ruined my holiday totally and now this year I am caught up in the thought that I just plain don't want X-Mas ever again. I am hoping that the new holiday this year will make it so I don't have those feelings again but it hurts knowing that she sat at my table, cuddled with my kids, drank my wine and then F***ked my H the next day in the office that I set up for him and took care of for him. I was pi**ED!!! NO< NO NO NO NO NO NO-don't do it! Tell her that for X-Mas you want the family alone this year and stand by your guns! tell her to read my post and let her know it devistates you and will probably devistate her eventually- to this day my H says he doesn't care if he EVER sees a crown roast of pork again-I had done such a good job at the dinner that the guilt didn't wash over too well! God Bless!<P>------------------<BR>Chick's <BR>Bren<P>You won't see things until your ready to not be blind!<P>

WHAT?!?....NO WAY!!

you know what, thisAlex,<P>why the hell not......sure....go right ahead.....and you can greet one and all buck naked at the door ...well, maybe wearing a big red ribbon...one that says.....<P>hello...my name is Alex, and my wife made me do this.....<P>right after you do this, post it and I will invite my husband's bimbo over too.....maybe i will wrap up the sex toy they used together as a gift for her mighty royal highness....<P>I know, I am being snarky....and I realize that you have NO intention of doing this....but I thought that the big red ribbon thing might make you laugh.....<P>Dylan<P>

Alex.......how about this......I would love to have the OP over.....I could shove her in a box, wrap it up, put a big sticker on it that says<P>DO NOT OPEN UNTIL X-MAS 2022<P>HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA<P>DYLAN

They don't think, My H wanted me to be friends with the OW, talked about going to her church, inviting her over for a cookout of course this was all before I had proof. But I suspected. YUCKKKK!!!! NO NO NO NO NO NO don't do it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You know what they are thinking with and it sure ain't their brains!!!!!<P>------------------<BR>di<P>

How inconsiderate and cruel! NO! NO! NO! How can she even think of asking that question???!!!

Positively unreal. Just goes to show that she truly is not living in reality to ask such a thing.

ABSOLUTELY NFW. NEVER NEVER NEVER.