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Just wanted to share that<P>YES<P>this stuff works.<P>We are going out tonight to celebrate a new type of anniversary. ( I even had my hair done!) It's been one year since he said he was willing to try, but he couldn't believe I'd take him back, he moved back in Sept. 3, Labor Day Friday last year.<P>He had a 14 month PA with a married co-worker, then learned that she had more than one OM, including THE BOSS. (Guess who will be the next partner.)<P>We are healing. In two months, he'll celebrate one year at this job, which he loves, and gives him more room for promotion (since she would have always been one step (or two knees) ahead of him.<P>God is good.<P>Recovery hurts alot...but it beats the alternative...look around at the kids in broken homes, the single moms, the single guys on barstools.<P>Give these principles a chance. Change yourself, you'll like who you become.<P>LIZZIE/Pearl of Great Price (POGP)<P>

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I am new to this game. D-day 6/23. H moved in with OW 8/4. I lave my H. He is showing all the signs of a MLC at the age of 35 - weel he just turned 36. I want to dave our marriage. I have been in Plan A since d-day.<P>Can you tell us what you did? What worked for you? What did not work? I am just trying to be my H friend and be here to support him. I see and talk to him everyday because of our D. He makes all contact and brings up subjects to talk about. I am just following his lead. When he is angry I back off, when he wants to talk I am here.<P>We have a child support hearing next week. I have some questions about that. I want to write him a letter but do not know what to say as to why I am doing this. I want to protect our family, not hurt him.<P>Thank you for posting. We need to hear from the s ones who make it through this.

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Liz<BR>Congratulations!<BR>I have always been so proud of you. [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]

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Liz,<BR>I have yet to cry...haven't been able to for years, not even after she left. <BR>You just about got me today, though! [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<BR> <BR>Congrats!<P>rrunrr<P>------------------<BR>Almost anything can be undone or forgiven.<P>Never take trust for granted.<p>[This message has been edited by rrunrr (edited September 02, 2000).]

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Alias -<P>Thanks for the news of your new anniversary and congratulations for making it this far. I know it's been a long, hard road, and I hope after 7 more months, my H and I will be where you and your H are. Thanks for giving us all a little hope today.

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Yayyyyy, Liz!!!<P>So glad you posted this! We're coming up behind you guys, working on 7 months now. She's right, everyone, this stuff CAN work!<P>Much love and happiness to you both, Liz.<P>Lori

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