I try to stay away from certain other boards since I just end up getting upset but was doing a little lurking (it's raining, H and baby are napping). I caught a thread where an OW was whining about how her MM's W is pregnant and she's worried that things might change when the baby comes. Another OW was consoling her saying that when her MM's baby was born they never skipped a beat and became even closer. Do these people have no souls, are they even human? How can a man watch his child be born and then run over to some bimbo's house (probably while his W is in the hospital)? How can a woman revel in boinking some other woman's H right after the W has given birth? That is supposed to be such a special time for H and W. It makes me ill.I guess if they do end up together they both get what they deserve. OW gets a total sleazebag who has no respect for women or family or anyone else's feeling except hi own. MM gets a totally self absorbed, shallow pinhead who thinks he's great even when he does horrible things (as long as they are to his W of course). That's what I get for lurking. Next time I'll turn the computer off if I get the urge!

It continually amazes me the stuff the OP's can do and justify to themselves. I don't understand how a MM can even be with a woman who has no respect for his marriage - what will happen if/when the two make that "committment" to one another? How could either of them ever trust each other?<P>It makes me ill, too...<P>------------------<BR>terri<BR><B>Courage</B><P>Whatever course you decide upon,<BR>there is always someone to tell you<BR>that you are wrong.<P>There are always difficulties arising<BR>which tempt you to believe that your <BR>critics are right.<P>To map out a course of action <BR>and follow it to an end <BR>requires courage.<P><I>Ralph Waldo Emerson</I>

I don't know how they do it, but my H did the same thing. Started his A in Jan, I was due with our baby in May. He called OW and talked for hours while I was in the hospital recovering from giving birth. Nice, huh!<P>Which board were you on---they didn't seem to miss a beat after our son was born. Maybe it's the OW posting??

Same here, I gave birth to a lovely godsend during WS's A. That's why it is so difficult to come to terms about the A, and to stop hating WS. <P>ALthough I had countless opportunities to take revenge on the shallow, heartless, evil, ugly tramp(as WS calls her), I decided that God's wrath is greater than my attempts. So I leave vengence of the OW in God's swift and heavy justice, especially when she threatened to cook my baby alive if my H stops bonking.<P>These OP live on another dimension, and they do group themselves to do maximum damage to marriages and get their fixes from stealing. Often times, they cannot get a single man to date them so they go for the MM to snarl them.<P>I know of a woman who was after the president of a dept (MM 1), MM 1 knew what she was up to and transfered this shallow YUCKS to another dept's President (MM 2) who was his enemy and rival. Now YUCKS is with MM 2. She is by all accounts, the ugliest and most 'bulldog' (sorry to bulldogs, didn't mean to insult you but that is the word used by the informer) face and her figure (what figure?!). So, I rest my case.<BR><p>[This message has been edited by weep (edited September 05, 2000).]