Hey, Hey, I'm a WS, probably know that by now. I'm having a great day. . .but I wanted to "rate" myself. . .particularly at the time of the affair.<P>1. confidence - zippo, nada, none is there an F category. . .F should be zippo.<P>2. looks - at the time I thought d maybe even E. . .OM thought otherwise, H feels otherwise. . .I think normal people would say b at least I hope they would.<P>3. wealth - I'm not a millionaire but Om seemed to think I had money to spare so I guess at the time it would have been B.<P>4. social status - b<P>5. educational level - I thought A, but now I know there's a difference between book smarts and real-life, bone-headedness.<P>6. morals - again I thought A during the affair E or again F, but I think I'm getting back to A - so maybe b and a half.<P>7. flirt - I am very shy until I warm up to people. . .so I start out as E. but quickly work my way up to A. But my H is way more flirtatious than me and he never had an A - interesting. . .<P>8. ego - think that goes along with confidence so I'd have to go with the zippo rating (f).<P>9. sex drive - at the time of the A - d it was there. . .I just wasn't excited about it.<P>10. sex appeal - I don't know C. I told the OM there were younger, prettier, single girls out there - why me - he was just "attracted to me" so this one could be higher - I don't know, maybe it was the perfume I wore. . .<P>11. Conservative - that's a hard one I'd say C.<P>12. Conversationalist - c - I'm more of a listener.<P>13. joy of life - felt like E at the time of the affair - now that it's over - it's probably higher - today it would be an A - I'm in a good mood - rare for WS.<P>14. secretive - I felt like A at the time, my H would have said E. . .<P>15. extrovert - sometimes A sometimes F.<P>Travel - zippo, nada, nothing. . .<P>Weep you don't have to talley my ratings. . .I don't know that there are any OP Magnets. . .I never thought of my self as a OM MAganet. . .I think this can happen to anyone at at time of weakness. Relationship with God woul dbe a good one for me to take stock of - at the time - obviously nada, now, getting better. . .