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Does anyone know if there is a form I can print out. Our counselor has asked us to sign one and I was pretty sure I saw a form at one time. Thanks. Yes, the counselor is helping though there is lots of work to be done. L<BR>
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There's no form, per se. This "policy" is described <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi3500_policy.html" TARGET=_blank>here</A>, under the <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi3000_intro.html" TARGET=_blank>Concepts</A> section.
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LAD...<P>Can't say I've seen a form for this...<P>Most of what I've really learned about the <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi3500_policy.html" TARGET=_blank>The Policy of Joint Agreement(POJA)</A> is from the book... <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi6010_give.html" TARGET=_blank> "Give & Take: The Secret to Marital Compatibility"</A>.<P>The basics is that you...<BR> <BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Never do anything without an enthusiastic agreement between you and your spouse. (page 58 <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi6010_give.html" TARGET=_blank>G&T</A>.)<HR></BLOCKQUOTE><P>The Guidelines/Ground Rules...(Chapter 6)<P><OL TYPE=1><BR><LI> Guideline 1: Set <I>ground rules</I> to make megotiations pleasant and safe.<BR><LI> Guideline 2: Identify the problem from both perspectives.<BR><LI> Guideline 3: Brainstorm with abandon.<BR><LI> Guideline 4: Choose the solution that is most appealing to both of you.<BR></OL><P>...and for the Ground Rules...<BR> <BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Ground Rule 1: Try to be pleasant and sheerful throughout megotiations.<HR></BLOCKQUOTE><BR> <BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Ground Rule 2: Put safety firts - do not threaten to cause pain or suffering when you negotiate, even if your spouse makes threatening remarks or if the negotiations fail.<HR></BLOCKQUOTE><BR> <BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Ground Rule 3: If you reach an impasse, stop for a while and come back to the issue later.<HR></BLOCKQUOTE><P>I hope that helps... ![[Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]](http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/smile.gif) <P>Jim
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Thanks, I have been reading more this afternoon, in concepts, and have printed out many of the articles that are in there. Maybe we will just read it and both sign it. These concepts should be used as a cover page on marriage licenses! L
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