Sheba...<P>Sorry... I couldn't get back to you earlier...<P>...you guessed it...<P>as I completed my reply.... I got kicked off by Steve's "Merge of GQ and GQII". Couldn't even post a reply to the GQII post I started (I guess that's what Steve means by <B>locking out</B>... now it's another "read only")<P>In any case...<P>--------------------------------------------<P>I've been a bit too busy getting together my own legal documents for the trial (10/10)...<BR>...I really hate this stuff.<P>Unlike your trial... mine will undoubtedly be a very contested and ugly one.<P>To protect my kids education money, I have to provide documentation on how my wife "fraudulently" stole (almost all of) my stepson's $30,000+ social security benefits...<BR>...yuck!<P>Then my stepson himself is having real psychological problems....<BR>...but won't take his medication (for ADHD or for depression)<BR>...won't go to counseling<BR>...won't get a job<BR>...won't talk to his bio-father (his mom convinces SS that his bio-F is a stalker)<BR>...sits around all day... doing near ZERO.<P>Now Steve puts this merge on and I had to update my <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum29/HTML/000013.html" TARGET=_blank>Notable Posts/Threads</A> post and a few others...<BR>...he did a real weird merge... <P>so...<BR>...life is still a bit complicated.<P>------------------------------------------<P>About your post (post-divorce)...<BR>...it sounds like you know where you're headed.<P>I'm happy for you... <P>I know the stumbling stones that cross your path aren't going to stop you...<P>Yes...<BR>...you are strong<BR>...you are wise<P>...you'll make it!<P>Prayers for a happy life...<BR>...God will take care of you my friend!<P> <P>Jim