I really don't want to split my kids up. I have a child from a previous marriage and 2 children with my current marriage. I am not afraid to find a job (currently in college) and not afraid to be alone. I'm not afraid to find my own place or my own way. But if we leave we'd have to split the kids. He wants the children, or at least to see them every single day. I'm not going through court battles again. He's a great father. But I don't want to split the kids. So how do you stay for the kids? I'm just so not happy. He doesn't remember to do anything so it's like I can't count on him. I'm just really not in love anymore. I don't get happy to see him. Could care less if he was here or not and I've told him what the problem is. I tell him with every single argument and he says he's so sorry and I know he means it, but then it's like his mind erases it. I mean literally. He forgets simple things, but things I really count on him for. When we have arguments they last forever b/c he goes into silent mode for hours on end waiting for me to forget the situation. It's like if we discuss it or not, it won't matter b/c it'll be forgotten by him in less than a day. I'm just tired and bored of the relationship. I want to be in love but it looks like that's not happening. How can we stay married for the kids and not kill each other along the way? I'm tired of fighting and he hates me more every day when we do. I don't like that feeling much either. Please email me. <P>------------------<BR>Just me!