Well the story just keeps getting better... for those of you who know the situation.. I broke things off.. But this nut case is completely self deluded/Well he keeps calling and keeps showing up at my house.. I have obtained an orderof protection.. I alerted the C.O. of the muilitary branch he is impersonating, They are referin all of the nformation to the CID. they will be investigating him. he is really crazy.... and as for his "poor wife" she is an active participant in all of his illegal activities... what a mess.... <P>Well I amjust trying to keep a low profile and try not to cross his path.. Staying with a friend and hoping this nightmare will end.. also saw a psychologist and will continue to do so....... <P>Just wanted to give you all an update... I will try and keep you posted.. agai thanks for the advice that was given.. it did help, if nothing else just to be able to vent about the humiliation of the lies and deception .....<P>Thanks<P>[This message has been edited by deceived (edited February 02, 2000).]<p>[This message has been edited by deceived (edited February 02, 2000).]