Well the story just keeps getting better... for those of you who know the situation.. I broke things off.. But this nut case is completely self deluded<BR>Well he keeps calling and keeps showing up at my house.. I have obtained an orderof protection I alerted the C.O. of the muilitary branch he is impersonating, They are referin all of the nformation to the CID. they will be investigating him. he is really crazy.... and as for his "poor wife" she is an active participant in all of his illegal activities... what a mess.... <P>Well I amjust trying to keep a low profile and try not to cross his path.. Staying with a friend and hoping this nightmare will end.. also saw a psychologist and will continue to do so....... <P>Just wanted to give you all an update... I will try and keep you posted.. agai thanks for the advice that was given.. it did help, if nothing else just to be able to vent about the humiliation of the lies and deception .....<P>Thanks

<B>deceived</B>,<P>I'm glad you're taking step to protect yourself... this is <B>very</B> important!<P>Prayers for you... <P>Jim

deceived,<P>I just saw you post. Have you contacted the military authorities? Have contacted the police? I saw were Lone Star told you to move bank accounts and change locks have you done this?<P>Now, what is the status of this with regard to the military? Is he in the army or the Air Force? If he is in NJ and in the Army he is probably at Ft. Dix if my memory serves me correctly. There is a large AF base in NJ also, just outside of Philadelphi. Call them if he is in the AF. <P>Let us know what is up. If he really is from The Citadel, call their alumni office and they may know more about where he is stationed. I think they could give you that information. If he really is an alum of that place they will take a very dim view of his behavior and there are many retired officers who have more pull than a Maj. or Lt. Col. from that school. <P>In short you have many resources, start using them to get this guy out of your life. It sounds like he needs to be removed from many peoples life. The military takes a very strong position on adultery so his career is going to be over if you can get this information to the correct people.<P>Take care, protect yourself and let us know what is happening.<P>JL

Decieved,<P>thanks for posting I was wondering how things were going.<P>I'm glad you contacted themilitary authorities.<P>JL had a point about the Citadel alumni thing.<P>His wife is involved with this mess...unbelievable...<P>Take care of yourself, thanks for letting us know you are ok.<P>Bill<P>------------------<BR>BB<BR>