I met my husband six years ago. It was a whirlwind romance. He lived in New York and I lived in Illinois. We both worked for the same company and he came to Illinois for training and that's where we met. He swept me off my feet. Taking out to nice places, opening doors for me, writing me beautiful letters. Two months after we met on Christmas night, he packed his car with what he could fit in it and moved to Illinois. We agreed he could stay with me until he found a place of his own. But neither of us wanted that. He ended up staying with me and 3 years later we bought a house together. Everything was wonderful. 3 months after we bought the house he proposed and 9 months later we were married. We had our problems, fights about money. He was in school at night trying to get his bachelor's degree and working full time during the day. But we were really happy. We felt blessed by our wonderful family (our parents). We bought a dog. Things were going good. Then I had a fall out with his mother. He thought that my anger was a serious problem. But things were generally still really good. On February 6th of this year he told he thought we should seperate. My temper had not gotten under control according to him, and I was a bad house wife and he couldn't give in anymore because he knew it would go back to the same old stuff. He slept in a seperate room from that night on and said he was going to get an apartment. On February 24th I came home from work to find him packing his stuff. We got into an argument and he left. He left his palm pilot in the house and when I looked at it I found an e-mail from a woman going to school with him that said, "hey baby, what's our (ok YOUR) new address and phone number for my palm. 2 days to go....baby! btw I LOVE YOU!" My husband of course denied that anything was going on and said she was just being cute. Now he's been gone for 2 weeks and not one call or e-mail. How can someone just walk away from 6 years and not look back. I am dumfounded. Our relationship was not that bad. Before he left he even told me I was his best friend and that he did love me. In January he started talking about having children. In December we were talking about renewing our vows. This just does not add up. How long am I going to dwell on this. This consumes every part of me and I am having a difficult time concentrating. Please help!!
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<P>Jim