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#400773 05/09/00 09:40 PM
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How much do I want to know and would he be truthful anyway? In the back of my mind, I wonder if he lied to me when he said that they had never had sex, but do I believe him? One of my friends told me to lie and say that "the other woman called me and told me that they had been sexually active becuase she wanted to have a clean conscience"- should I trick my husband like this to see his reaction? Plus, when does the intimacy come? I feel that I have fallen out of love. He wants to forget that this ever happened, I want to process it so that I can deal with it- where am I at now? It has been a month, am I ready to deal with sexuality and being intimate with him? If I am not, will he go elsewhere?

#400774 05/10/00 10:03 AM
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lucia,<P>I thought there might be another post to help you on this one...<P>Check out ===><A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum28/HTML/002831.html" TARGET=_blank>on knowing the "truth"</A>. (Check out <B>popeye</B>'s response!... as well as everyone elses)<P>So good... I put it in the <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum29/HTML/000013.html" TARGET=_blank>Notable Posts/Threads</A> post!<P>I'm praying for you [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>Jim


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