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My H is coming home today after being away for a week for camp. I have been starting to feel better, at least eating a little more and sleeping. Now the real fun begins. He is going back to work tomorrow and that is where the OW is. I now have the pit back in my stomach. Things seem so strange when he is here. It is like going over the whole affair day in day out. We don't even seem to talk anymore. I really don't have anything to say. He says he is tired of talking about the affair. I feel like when we talk nothing really gets resloved. I just don't know how I am going to handle the work situation. Any suggestions?<P>------------------<BR>NotSure2K
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All I can say is that my H wasn't strong enough to handle working with OW. He gave in and started it all again, so he finally agreed to quit his job! Thank God for that!<BR>I'm not saying that your H would continue the affair, but it sure is easier when H doesn't see her! At least easier for me! Good luck and I hope that it goes well!
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I know it is going to be difficult. I don't ever see him leaving his job. I don't know if I am strong enough.<P>------------------<BR>NotSure2K
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If I were you, I would tell him to choose between you and the job, and then give him two months to find a new position. Nothing should be more important to him than you and your feelings. And now he owes you big time. The OW in our life lives 2000 miles away, and believe me, it isn't far enough.
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