well things here have calmed down abit. I have yet to hear from the ladies husband about getting together so i can see a picture.<P>I noticed the other day that we seem to be "buddies" there doesnt seem to be any intamicy in our words anymore(make sense)<P>Does anyone ever feel like things just went "flat" did you recover? <P>Somedays I think it is all in my head could use some opinions [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>thanks Chubbles<P>Also has anyone ever gotten a positive responce from the spouse on investigating?<BR>my husband seems willing for me to get these pictures a little to willing. wondering if maybe they are the same if it just saves him from having to make the discusion because should they be I will make it for him??<BR>any thoughts?<BR>