Hey, does anyone have any advice for me. Here is my situation...My H has gone on a business trip with his C0-Supervisor. They went together in her vehicle. This is the one who he had gone out and had a few to many drinks with while I was out of town. Since then we have had numerous talks about the situation and he told me there was No way he was interested in her and there is absolutely nothing going on. Now, they have left together and I am feeling real insecure right now. I know that I shouldn't feel this way but I can't help it. I picture things in my head like is he really telling me the truth, or is he just smoothing it over for me so I'll leave it alone. He was up front in telling me that they would be going out to eat dinner, and asked me if I had a problem with it. Of course, I said "NO" not wanting to look like a B... Has anyone else out there been in a similar situation.... Does anyone have any advice or just some support, as I am alone for the next couple of days...Going bonkers!!!<P>------------------<BR>

i think it was good he was honest with you upfront. <BR>now, do whatever you have to to keep yourself in his mind.<BR>can you email him? page him with an 'i love you' code? call him with innocent good news?<BR>no lovebusters, no lovebusters, no lovebusters.<BR>do something fabulous for yourself while he's gone, and have something special for his return.<BR>good luck!<P>------------------<BR>for better or for worse, in sickness and in health, for richer or for poorer, till death do us part.<P><BR>

Thank you Love WAS Blind! That was just what I needed to hear. I know I need to be trusting. I just can't stop those negitive thoughts! eek... He will call me like he usually does, and then I will tell him how much I love him! Yes, your right, I need to do something good for myself, instead of having a pity party right?<P>------------------<BR>

hi marilyn, hated it when my h was gone with the previous ows. It was really tough knowing they were together, even though he said nothing was up. <BR>No pity parties...never does any good anyway. What does help is to do something fun, like exercise. It keeps mind and body very occupied and focused.<BR>No lovebusters when he calls! Be lovely, nice, and your wonderful self. Maybe you could mention that you are available by phone to talk about anything he has on his mind? My h responds well to that!

Hi Marilyn!Just a few of my thoughts I would like to share with you. I trusted my husband for 15 years...never did he give me any cause to think he would be unfaithful in the past. But when he started to display the "signs" of having an affair, I discovered (after alittle investigation on my part) that he was. Since I knew about it and he thought I didnt, I watched him lie, lie, lie right to my face!<BR>I never would have believed it if I hadnt uncovered it myself. So if you are suspicious there is probably just cause. I always follow my "gut" feeling, and am usually right. If I were you, and wanted to know the truth, I would search and search until I found out. I could not live with the uncertainty. There is a good book I picked up a while ago entitled "Is he having an affair?" you can get it at Barnes and Noble. It gives you lots of tips, and much needed advice. <BR>

Hi Marilyn!Just a few of my thoughts I would like to share with you. I trusted my husband for 15 years...never did he give me any cause to think he would be unfaithful in the past. But when he started to display the "signs" of having an affair, I discovered (after alittle investigation on my part) that he was. Since I knew about it and he thought I didnt, I watched him lie, lie, lie right to my face!<BR>I never would have believed it if I hadnt uncovered it myself. So if you are suspicious there is probably just cause. I always follow my "gut" feeling, and am usually right. If I were you, and wanted to know the truth, I would search and search until I found out. I could not live with the uncertainty. There is a good book I picked up a while ago entitled "Is he having an affair?" you can get it at Barnes and Noble. It gives you lots of tips, and much needed advice. <BR>

Hi Marilyn!Just a few of my thoughts I would like to share with you. I trusted my husband for 15 years...never did he give me any cause to think he would be unfaithful in the past. But when he started to display the "signs" of having an affair, I discovered (after alittle investigation on my part) that he was. Since I knew about it and he thought I didnt, I watched him lie, lie, lie right to my face!<BR>I never would have believed it if I hadnt uncovered it myself. So if you are suspicious there is probably just cause. I always follow my "gut" feeling, and am usually right. If I were you, and wanted to know the truth, I would search and search until I found out. I could not live with the uncertainty. There is a good book I picked up a while ago entitled "Is he having an affair?" you can get it at Barnes and Noble. It gives you lots of tips, and much needed advice. <BR>

Hi Marilyn!Just a few of my thoughts I would like to share with you. I trusted my husband for 15 years...never did he give me any cause to think he would be unfaithful in the past. But when he started to display the "signs" of having an affair, I discovered (after alittle investigation on my part) that he was. Since I knew about it and he thought I didnt, I watched him lie, lie, lie right to my face!<BR>I never would have believed it if I hadnt uncovered it myself. So if you are suspicious there is probably just cause. I always follow my "gut" feeling, and am usually right. If I were you, and wanted to know the truth, I would search and search until I found out. I could not live with the uncertainty. There is a good book I picked up a while ago entitled "Is he having an affair?" you can get it at Barnes and Noble. It gives you lots of tips, and much needed advice. <BR>

Hi Aces! Thanks for the post. I feel like "NO" he isn't having an Affair. That is what my gut is saying! My mind is the one that is doing all crazy stuff. He called last night, and everything is going good. It was late and they had gone to eat. He was open and honest. I have 1 more night to go!!! I think I need a Labotomy!!!!HA!!!!!<BR>Thanks you guys for caring!<P>------------------<BR>