How can being married 20yrs suddenly turn into not knowing if H loves me. H is in love with intenet woman. I am still comitted to H/marriage. How do I fix this

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Arlene -<BR>I'm glad you came here! You are wise.<BR>I'm sorry for all that's happening to you.<BR>My husband of almost ten years fell in love on the internet! They met twice - two hour flight I might add! He's home with me and we are working on things, contact with OW has ended, but he still cannot say he loves me. This is so hard, but we are on a journey!<BR>The internet is addictive and pure fantasy. Please realize that. You can be who you want to be, say what you want to say in a chat room and its quite different from real life. My H and OW never experienced "reality". They experienced such intensity with each other, emotionally and physically, but nothing of it had to do with "reality". Please remember that. Use this board. Post and reply - read the books. Get your husband to look at this site - he must realize that the internet is an escape only.<BR>God Bless

Thanks Its hard to find support from friends to stick through this mess. I have learned alot about me and am working on some of my faults,but am afraid that H doesnt see anything but himself right now. I feel deserted and alone.