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i suspect h of affair....there are many signs...but i have no real physical proof....but while washing clothes i started to notice semen in his underwear on days that i am sure we were not making love....has this happened to anyone else? does it mean he's sleeping with someone? i wanted to try to save marriage but he is fiercly denying affair telling me i'm crazy...what can i do? is it posssible to try to save marriage alone? i know who other girl might be...have her number ....should i call her? what would i say? PLEASE HELP IM DESPARATE!
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Jane,<P>I see that you have posted in a number of areas. I relied in recovery. This is my reply:<P>Take a moment to gather yourself. Try to walk through this slowly and get as much information as you can, then think it through. I know it is tough right now and you just want to react!<P>You say there are many signs. What else are you seeing that makes you suspicious?<P>It sounds like his reaction is a typical sign of denial, but of course I couldn't say for sure only you can. <P>The semen might be from masturbation. <P>Don't make any phone calls until you figure out what is going on. You need more information.<P>DM<P>
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Dear Jane 4112, Trust your God-given intuition. I will be praying for you both. You may be getting ready to go down a path of brokeness, but until there is TOTAL brokeness healing Can't begin. I have been down this road and God can redeem, restore, heal and forgive. I have learned about God's love and forgiveness in a way that I never could have through ordinary circumstances. Hang in there ! Trust in the Lord with all your heart. He will see you through. I have a transformed husband because of the brokeness that the A brought!<BR>My husband turned back to Christ and He exchanged his flesh trip for the life of Christ!
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