I would like a opinion on my H. He could have gone to manager training thing this week out of town. I supported him in going, thinking it might be good for him to get away. Though he is living at his folks. A lot has been going on at his work. He could not make up his mind in going, then over the weekend he told me he was not going. I asked why and he said he would not be able to focus on it anyway. By the way he started therapy last week also and they put him on prosaic.<BR>I called O/W voice mail and she left a message that she was going to be working out of town. My H and O/W work at the same place. She is at the same town H was suppose to go. He dicided not to go. He could have gone down and spent the whole week with her and he did not. Is this a good sign?<BR>We did go out to lunch and it was nice. He gave me a hug goodbye. I would of like a kiss better.<BR>His Xmas party is this weekend and he has not invited me...bummer though I do not know if I am up to it because she will be there.<BR>Does anybody know about mid life crisis? My H has shaved off his mustache, is getting braces next week and is driving a pick up chick car, I signed helped for (this was before breakup) Is this signs of a mid life crisis?<BR>should I be incouraged or not. I hate to get my hopes up and have them dash down again. Any thought will help.<BR>Thanks!

I have learned the hard way about getting my hopes up. I am up and down all the time. Cause I do get my hopes up when W and I have good talks or we hug.<P>I have learned to just let things flow as they are, and see were they go.<P>I hope this helped<P>------------------<BR>brownphdt<P>