This morning when I drove in to work, "Her Song" came on the radio. I called her to tell her and say when I heard it, I thought of her. She seemed suprised, talked a little and we said good-byes.<BR>She called me 15 minutes later to ask me how soon after we get divorced does she fall off my insurance coverage. I told her I thought it was right away, but wasn't sure. I would need to ask. This all threw me for a loop, but I didn't LB. I stayed calm,<BR>when I called her later to tell her info she asked me what I thought about the divorce. I told her that I didn't want it, and didn't feel we needed to do it to work things out.<BR>I said if she felt it was needed, I would'nt stop her. I told her that it was my goal to not hurt her. I said I also wanted to do nice things for her,if that was OK, she said it was fine. She said maybe we could remarry down the road. I said I was hoping she would come back. she asked how long I would wait, I said forever. She seemed suprised. I said that even with a piece of paper saying I'm divorced, In front of God I am still a married man and would behave as such.<BR>I am trying to remain calm even when she seems to be testing me. <BR>I just hope I'm on the right track yet?<BR><p>[This message has been edited by Daniel (edited November 02, 2000).]

My H seems to think WE also can remarry down the road....<BR>I'm not so sure...<BR>I am doing all I can to save our marriage and when I give up I think that will be it...not sure what will happen IF and WHEN later down the road he decides He wants to try...and I have moved on....<BR>Yes I will always love him too...but enough to remarry after I have closed this chapter in our lives...I just don't know....<P>I'v heard said" You have to EARN your way to a divorce" and I think I am on the road to doing that....So if and when it gets to that...I think I will be ready to move on...alone....<BR>tyra