This morning when I drove in to work, "Her Song" came on the radio. I called her to tell her and say when I heard it, I thought of her. She seemed suprised, talked a little and we said good-byes.<BR>She called me 15 minutes later to ask me how soon after we get divorced does she fall off my insurance coverage. I told her I thought it was right away, but wasn't sure. I would need to ask. This all threw me for a loop, but I didn't LB. I stayed calm,<BR>when I called her later to tell her info she asked me what I thought about the divorce. I told her that I didn't want it, and didn't feel we needed to do it to work things out.<BR>I said if she felt it was needed, I would stop her. I told her that it was my goal to not hurt her. I said I also wanted to do nice things for her,if that was OK, she said it was fine. She said maybe we could remarry down the road. I said I was hoping she would come back. she asked how long I would wait, I said forever. She seemed suprised. I said that even with a piece of paper saying I'm divorced, In front of God I am still a married man and would behave as such.<BR>I am trying to remain calm even when she seems to be testing me. <BR>I just hope I'm on the right track yet?<P><BR>Duplicate of one below... forum leader please deledte thanks<p>[This message has been edited by Daniel (edited November 02, 2000).]

You are doing an excellent job and I don't think her mind is too clear. These questions she's asking may be her starting to think about what will change. And already talking about remarrying? Hang in there and keep up your non-LB approach. You seem to be doing a great job. She'll be thinking of the things you are doing for her.<P>It has got to make her think when she knows she already has a man that will wait forever for her. Keep it up.