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My H. wants to try again, but he will not give me physical proof that the EA is over. When I ask him, all he says is "She thinks I'm some kind of flake, and she doesn't contact me anymore." I am not happy with that response. I am not sure what I should do to get the answer I want. I was emailing th OW for a while, and she apologized, said she didn't know he was married. ANd when I told the OW that my H. said it was over weeks ago, she forwarded his last email, on OCt. 31 saying how much he loved her, and how I was out to destroy them (us). I asked him about it, and he just said he hadn't emailed her in a long time, but then I handed him a print out of the last email from her, and he actually had enough sense to look guilty. H. then moved out, and it has been difficult to see him, and not know what is going on. I believe he is emailing the OW again, because she quit emailing me. I am assuming this is true. I show him my faithfulness, I have given him my email password, and logon password. But how am I to know for sure, when he refuses to do the same for me? I am not sure which way to go now. Do I go back to plan A, or start with plan b? I just don't know--gn

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Snug,<BR>If he really wants back "To try Again"<BR>I would say he should be willing to get rid of the computer in your house at least get rid of the internet access? <P>I wouldn't read to much into the loss of e-mail contact between you and OW. If she truley did not know he was M and you broke that news to her, she probably just wants to avoid the both of you.<P><BR>


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