Hi All,<P>I got of work early today did some grocery shopping, checked out some of your posts, emailed some friends. Now, what to do with the rest of the day. I think I'm going to start a little planning for when we get into recovery.Yes, I'm very optomistic. It's either do this or stew in my anger and resentment towards this terrible affliction of infidelity. I hate this thing, it is the most destructive force I have ever seem. Of course it is Satan himself is running it. Enough said I don't want to get wound up.<P>Some of the thungs I've been thinking about are. How extreme of measures am I willing to take to get my family whole again. <P>Moving to Virginia, this will put us closer to Robins family. In order to do this I have to find a job. I'm so spoiled at my job now, I'm almost unemployable. Solution; start my own buisness. I've already benn doing some preliminary planning ie. equipment, supplys and accounts. All of those are tangable.<P>Today I'm going to see what I can find in the way of real estate in Prince William county Virginia, we'd be moving to Manassas.<BR>Then I'm going to see what I can find out about the education system up there, Robin will want to work, she is an awsome teacher. I'm curious about pay, benifits and job placement. We'll need her benifiys if I have a one man buisness.<P>If anyone knows how I can find Real Eastate in the web please help, also with finding school board. I'm just going to do a search engine and surf. So if you can help I would be grateful.<P>Thanks,<BR>Bill<P>------------------<BR>BB<BR>

Hey, Bill. I'm in Virginia too. About three hours from there, but my brother lives very close and, as luck would have it, has spent the last year looking at property and just purchased a great place. <P>Email me and I'll see if I can get him to send you some stuff. Heck, he just went through it, maybe he can help.<P>Lori<p>[This message has been edited by lostva (edited December 10, 1999).]

Hi Bill,<P>What a wonderfully positive thing to do! You have inspired me to do the same. Sometimes, I want to move out of Texas so badly, I nearly jump out of my skin. After visiting Montana (Missoula/Kalispell) the year before last, we both fell in love with that area. It felt like home to us because we are mountain, blue sky, clean air people. (Came from the Sierra Nevadas!) The only thing that frightens me is the job market there. Does anyone have any insight on how one could scratch out a living there?<BR>(Hope you don't mind me horning in on your thread, Bill.)

WilliamJ,<P>Try <A HREF="http://www.pen.k12.va.us" TARGET=_blank>www.pen.k12.va.us</A> <P>Hope this helps some.<P><P>------------------<BR>God Bless you and yours,<P>Sheryl W.<P>www.widesmiles.org/gallery/britanie<BR>