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My wife has just had an affair with a man from our long time church. I don't want to pull my family out of our church family, but I can't stand to look at the man, nor do I want him looking at my wife. Contact cannot be prevented and I just want to choke him. God's house is not meant for the feelings I have for him. I plan on trying another church and just wanted others input.
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First, is your wife remorseful? What are her current feelings towards this man? I would say move to another church immediately. She must not have any contact with this man. This is a major principle. Good Luck
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Thanks, my wife is very remorseful and we are going to pull through stronger than ever. She says she dislikes this man extremely for what he lured her into (over a long period of time, he continued to pull at her), but I know that you just don't say I Love You to someone and immediately not have feelings for him. I feel like she was asleep at the marriage wheel and that she has now woke up. I am going to change churches, but it hurts all of us. Thanks again for your comments.
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