Sorry, I know this probably isn't the right place but...<P>It looks as if there are 3 replies to my post of yesterday, yet when I click on it I only see one. Other people's posts seems to work. Am I missing something?<P>E in UK

Well, the first reply was Jim's (NSR) welcome post; the second reply was your response to him. The third post is from Jim, and in case you still can't read it, it is as follows:<P> <BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR><B>A point of clarification...<BR>...neither Plan A or Plan B has to do with where the WS lives!<P>Plan A (and Plan B as well)...<BR>...is your frame of mind.<P>Even if your H moves out to be with Dorothy(OW)...<BR>...you still work on Plan A...<BR>...for you to become both a better person and a better W!!!<P>Plan B is for when you have hit a point so low... that you need to maintain that level before it is lost...<BR>...this will usually happen when you or your spouse separate...<BR>...but even then... not necessarily!<P>You really should be nowhere near Plan B!<P>Re-think your resolve...<BR>...and go to Plan A!!!<P>Jim<BR><HR></BLOCKQUOTE></B><P>Hope this helps!

There have been rare times when the count of the message replies doesn't match the actual number of replies people make.<P>This is a bug in the software, as far as I can tell. If you wait long enough... the counts do get updated.<P>Sweatpea is right too...<BR>...after your original post... everyone's subsequent reply... even your own... gets counted.<P>How's the Plan A going?<P> <P>Jim