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<BR>elo:<BR>*Female<BR>*Betrayed<BR>*marr. 20 years+<BR>*knew spouse 3 yrs/fore marr/13 mos. since *discovery/1/2000<BR>*length of affair: same time<BR> (affair came to light when h.,ow in auto <BR> accident-2 weeks after they met- both drunk)affair didn't stop/he promised/I believed him)<BR>*both emot/phy affair.<BR>*first affair<BR>*Considering Plan A (talked with Dr. Harley on radio/appot with S. Harley 2/27/2001<BR>*living separate/he left 3/13/200, ret'd for <BR> about 2wks/left again 3/30/2000. Still<BR> gone.11 mos. minimal/no contact - in fog.<BR>*OP is 3xma/div.<BR>*OP/barmaid he met in guess where? a bar!<BR>*Divorce filed 2x by WS; stopped 2x by WS<BR> presently no action pending.<BR>*Principles being followed:<BR> *my gut instinct - I did not abandon <BR> family-I will not file because I do not<BR> want d. <BR> *riding the waves, waiting for his crash<BR> *trying to become stronger, change <BR> to be more appealing to ws.<BR>*1 week on MB forum<P>Very personal<BR>1. 3 chi/16 yr boy/13, 11 yr girls<BR>2. I have physical custody just because he <BR> left. <BR>3. I have seen counselors. None help/can't<BR> empathize with my feelings. no <BR> faith in them.<BR>4. No meds.<BR>5. Mid-life crisis - yes! esp. ws<BR>6. Alcohol - big factor in equation for ws<BR> Op is alcohol/drug user/dwi convicted/<BR>7. Verbal abuse<BR>8. no suicide attempts<P>
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