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nb, I agree with you, but I think we can tie it all together with this quote: <BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Living well is the best revenge.<HR></BLOCKQUOTE>Wishing ill on others is poisonous to ourselves. I'm working on the anger and hate I have felt toward the slug. As you can tell, I haven't eliminated the negative feelings quite yet ![[Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]](http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/wink.gif) <P>When my husband wakes up someday, I might even be able to feel a little bit of sympathy for her. Maybe.<P>------------------<BR>terri<BR>I believe in miracles...<P><BR>
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Delphi--<P>Thanks for reminding us that judgements are not ours to make. It's so true...yet few of us can even get through a day without judging others, as well as ourselves. We must learn tolerance and self-control. When the sins or slights of others affect us personally, that's a tough lesson!<P>We are also human, full of feelings...both good and bad. We all make mistakes.<P>Enough of my blithering...in answer to the question, yes, I believe "what comes around, goes around" AND "what goes around, comes around." It's a two-way street.<BR><P>------------------<BR>Laura<P>"I cannot care a little for you. I love you only just enough to love you all the way."~~Rod McKuen<P>
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Hi All! Thank you so much for your replies. It's interesting to see various opinions on this. Makes me feel a little better too...
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NT,<P>The more I think about it the more I realise he will lose in the end. While I'm learning what it is to be a good H and am reconnecting my frienship with Robin, I get great satosfaction know his 17 year old insecurities are driving him insane. Is that what's know as poetic justice?<P>I can't wiat till he starts LBing!!!<BR>Watching him implode will be him getting his!<P>Bill<P>------------------<BR>BB<BR>
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Yep I believe in it, one way or another, and tenfold.
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ABsolutely! Not because they "deserve" it, but because they live lives that are built on falsehoods and deceptions and other people's pain. Eventually all that collapses. How can anyone entice a MM or MW to their home and live with the fear that they might leave them, too? Knowing that OW and OM get their own by their own hands gives me a lot of peace and satisfaction.
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What difference does it make..... If my W's affair blows up or she "reaps" the pain she has caused two families, does it bring her back to our marriage? I don't think so..., I am starting to believe that they never wake up, just move on. The whole thing was an experience nothing more. Things were learned and life goes on.... I am sure anyway that is how my W will treat it..... NEXT.....
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