please look at my story in response to scarlett - I guess I just figured out to write on here. gotta go 2 yr old naked and wet. Anyone know where I am coming from?<BR>ugh<BR><P>------------------<BR>L.

Hi Sadprincess,<P>I did the same exact thing as you did the first time I posted. Mine are under "The Quiet before the Storm" and "Is he cheating". <P>I am sorry for your pain. So far you're the first one besides me w/small children (that I know about anyway). I have a 15 month old and an almost 4 year old. So I can definitely relate to naked wet babies running around the house. I need to get my 2 to bed right now. I just wanted to say hi and welcome. <P>My H is a nurse, also and that is where our problem started. He had to train the OW and that is how their "friendship" started. Couldn't you work one night a week (12 hr shift) and make as much as 2 weekend days? I know nights are terrible, but the pay is better. Probably if you worked Sunday nights 7p-7a, had a sitter until 2:00 or 3:00 on Monday you would make almost as much as you do now. You could try an agency. They pay really well. The agencies where we are located pay about $36/hr for nights. Just a thought. I will check in on you after I get the kids to bed and the house cleaned.<P>Take care,<BR>Window

Welcome <B>sadprincess</B>...<P>There is a post of general welcome I wish to share with you... <P>It has a lot of quick links to many of the <B>most</B> important MB sites...<BR>Click here ==> <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum29/HTML/000553.html" TARGET=_blank>General Welcome for All New Builders(Newbies)</A><P><B>About your post</B>...<P>Do start on a <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi8113_ab.html" TARGET=_blank>Plan A</A>...<BR>Check out my post <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum30/HTML/000176.html" TARGET=_blank>Plan A - 101 (2nd ed.)</A>.<P>I too have to get going...<BR>...but check on you later.<P> <P><A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum29/HTML/000254.html" TARGET=_blank>Jim</A> / <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum29/HTML/000037.html" TARGET=_blank>NSR</A>

Sadprincess:<P>I am glad you met Window, she's been a blessing. You will hopefully also get to meet windancer and of couse me K9. (Really I am not a dog, but I do love the furry little things, they are so LOYAL) Ironic isn't it. We want loyalty so badly. We've got a ton of posts under Windancers name, feel free to pop in and join us. Well, I gotta go, Window at least told me how to keep this silly machine from kicking me off. <P>Take care and know there are many like ourselves who are finding healing by visiting with others who have walked in our shoes. It makes a difference. Trust me.

Sadprincess:<P>Just read your post on scarlett. Sheesh, men are such jerks! You want to know what mine said when I asked him why he didn't break it off with her once I found out and He told ME he would? He actually said, "I didn't want to burn my bridges". Mind you, this is a 22 year marriage. As I said go to Windancer, Quiet before the Storm and get caught up with Window, myself and Windancer. We'd love to have you join us. <P>

Since you are fairly new here. I thought I would tell you something, The quiet before the storm is 4 pages long. At the bottom and top you will see pages 1 2 3 4 you have to click the mouse to go to the next page. Told you we talked a lot.