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after someone has had an affair or maybe two, why would they want to stay married? why would my husband want to stay with me, why am I so reluctant to cut him loose?
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Because you and your husband are normal. Most people who have affairs do not want to loose their marriage. They sense that there is something missing in their lives and make a wrong choice in how to fill the void.
Affairs happen in about 43% of all marriages yet 98% of those marriages do not end in divorce due to the affairs. You and your husband can rebuild your marriage. Have you read the book Surviving and Affair yet? And have you read the material on this web site? It will give you the answers for many of your questions and a road map for reparing your marriage.
The people on this websit are using the Marriage Builder phylosophies for recovering from affairs and restructuring their marriages to make the affair proof in the future.
I wish you all the luck,
<small>[ June 04, 2003, 09:56 PM: Message edited by: Eleonora ]</small>
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