I have been posting in the GQII forum and having trouble getting in that section. Now since my H's A with this OW, I have recently found out that she is pregnant, unknown if the father of her child is her H or my H. Her H has asked her for a Divorce, my H has told her he does not love, want to marry, is not serious about her and only wants and used her for the sex. I guess mine was not enough. Anyway, now OW's H is talking with me. he calls me late at night, calls me during work. First we would talk because we new about the situation with our Spouses. Since we all used to be friends and all. Now we seem to be getting attached, before we would talk about stuff we found out our WS were doing or did or where they were seen together, etc. Making each other's life even more misearable than it already was, but yet I would get this comfort out of it too. Crazy. Well now, it seems that things are different when we talk. He wants to see me when he comes to town, he calls me during work and says he thinks about me often. Asks if I need financial help, since he feels that he is obligated because of how things happened. This is all strange. But I like the attention he is giving me. H knows I talk to OW H, but not to that extent. My H, which does not live with me or communicate very much with me, still sees OW, still has sex with her, and other women as well. So my question is, what do I do about the OW's H and me. Is it just because we are both BS's and feel vulnerable from this situation? Or is it a game? Like trading places? So even more confusing than my own H. Need some advise.