As one who "just found out", it seems that everywhere I go I see new signs of cheaters. I just left the grocery store where I saw and heard a man on the phone saying, to what was obviously the OW, "I love you too but I can't stop tonight. She will look at the time on my checkout receipt." I wondered how many trips my H made to the store that were really just excuses to call his OW. I thought of all the movies he saw "alone" and how many times he went to ball games "alone" and all the places I believed he was when he was more than likely with her...UGH. Things that just make you want to go hmmmm.

trips to the store? Heck my H actually made FAKE biz trips out of town ( he wasnt even out of town he was in OW's condo!) He'd been travelling for many yrs for work so I didnt even suspect until after d-day when I went back over the last few months thinking. Checked his amex travel bills- yep he was NOT in Texas! Makes me sick just to think about it now. I finally realized something was drastically wrong with valentines day came and he bought our girls big heart fulls of candy and I got NOTHING! Nothing but a confession out of him after I confronted him yet again- and I spent that entire day at the doctors office sobbing my guts out to get an antidepressant. lifeismessy

lifeismessy,<BR> I understand what you were (are) feeling. Hard to believe that someone you have so much trust in could betray it like they do. I'm sorry for you and I hope you are doing better now.<BR>

<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by TinyDancer:<BR><B>As one who "just found out", it seems that everywhere I go I see new signs of cheaters. I just left the grocery store where I saw and heard a man on the phone saying, to what was obviously the OW, "I love you too but I can't stop tonight. She will look at the time on my checkout receipt." I wondered how many trips my H made to the store that were really just excuses to call his OW. I thought of all the movies he saw "alone" and how many times he went to ball games "alone" and all the places I believed he was when he was more than likely with her...UGH. Things that just make you want to go hmmmm.</B><HR></BLOCKQUOTE><P>Aha.....and I thought that I was the only one who picked-up on these vibes while going about my daily business. I've learned alot in the many years that my H had his E/P A and I use my hard-earned knowledge like a tool. Sometimes a sharp, scathing tool...LOL! I'm all eyes and ears now....and cynical to boot. There are fools everywhere. Earth must have a special running on the mass-transit mothership from infinity and beyond. <P><P>------------------<BR><B>Time heals all wounds as long as you DON'T pick at them!</B>