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I found out through our office manager at work that H has told OW that they can have no contact and that it was over. This was EA/PA with one of our regional managers. OW called up our office manager to find out if he'd really told me and if she knew that there could be no more contact. Right now all business will go through our office manager. So I need to know if H still needs to send a letter since he told her that he could have no contact before either of us knew how it was supposed to be done. Also, OW wants no more contact and, according to our office manager, is very contrite and is sorry for hurting me. Should I forget the letter? If I ask for it will it be an LB since he's already ended it? I am going to be traveling with him for the next 3 weeks so I will be with him constantly. Should I spring the whole plan on him? I'm half done with SAA. I'm not sure exactly how to proceed. We will be going to Retrovaille the first weekend in August. Please post soon as we are hitting the road on Monday. (He is presently on his way back from a scout camp with our oldest son.)<P>------------------<BR>Rejoice in hope, endure in affliction, persevere in prayer. Romans 12:12
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Hi LMH, <BR>I saw this after I responded to your other post. I don't think you need to send a no contact letter now. If he has already said he doesn't want contact then he has done what is necessary. If he responds to her again, it is just continuing contact in my opinion. I'm not a pro at this, but thats how I feel. I wouldn't push for a no contact letter now. Good Luck on your trip. CharlieGirl
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If the no-contact has already been done, then the letter is not necessary. However, if the OW or you H continues contact, then it would need to be sent.
Why not ask your H to read the SAA book? Mine did and loved it. We are in recovery now and working the MB plan together.
IMHO
<small>[ June 04, 2003, 09:41 PM: Message edited by: Eleonora ]</small>
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