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too late??? #40738 12/11/99 06:36 PM
Joined: Nov 1999 Posts: 176 I I later found out that he moved in with OW after he left me. S Member
I later found out that he moved in with OW after he left me. S Member I Joined: Nov 1999 Posts: 176	H asked for and 'really wants' divorce. He is happy with OW and I haven't verbally talked to him in 5 weeks only an email every once in a while to tell me that he still doesn't want me (probably to make me stop sending him e-mails). Is it too late to read "Surviving the Affair"? Or could this book still offer some guidance to me. I obviously don't want the divorce and haven't 'given' it yet.Please advize.

Re: too late??? #40739 12/11/99 06:45 PM
Joined: Dec 1969 Posts: 194 S Sally Member
Sally Member S Joined: Dec 1969 Posts: 194	It is never too late to learn, and to grow. Reading all you can get your hands on can only help you and your H. Read all you can here...post, post, post!<BR>Miracles happen and it seems you are far from needig a miracle.<BR>Welcome to marriage builders, and may you learn all there is to know!<BR>Surviving an Affair is an awesome book, I highly recommend it! Also, His Needs, Her Needs. Great books, with soo much wisdom.<P>------------------<BR>You will be stronger because of this.<P>

Re: too late??? #40740 12/11/99 06:47 PM
Joined: Nov 1999 Posts: 176 I I later found out that he moved in with OW after he left me. S Member
I later found out that he moved in with OW after he left me. S Member I Joined: Nov 1999 Posts: 176	Thanks, Sally. I think I'll order the book right now.

Re: too late??? #40741 12/11/99 07:02 PM
Joined: Aug 1999 Posts: 6,107 N new_beginning Member
new_beginning Member N Joined: Aug 1999 Posts: 6,107	Student Wife,<P>Weekends are REALLY slow around here... so don't despair if you get very few responses... it picks up again on the weekdays...<P>As far as your question: I agree with Sally, it's never EVER too late to learn. Plus, don't sign the divorce papers if you aren't ready. It took two to marry, and it takes two to divorce. Hold onto them... but don't sign until you've tried everything to put the marriage back together, which it sounds like you want to do!<P>Best wishes<P>~Sheryl

Re: too late??? #40742 12/11/99 07:13 PM
Joined: Nov 1999 Posts: 176 I I later found out that he moved in with OW after he left me. S Member
I later found out that he moved in with OW after he left me. S Member I Joined: Nov 1999 Posts: 176	Thanks new_beginning! I have gotten so much help and support from this site. I know I am young and have a very individual situation, but I have read so many posts and been able to relate things to my situation. Thanks again. I just ordered 'Surviving the Affair' so I expect to have some great reading material early next week.

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