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Okay, I am just full of questions today. I'm not sure if I should have done this, but I have a sort of friend (really a person who is like me, but we have never been close friends) who lives in the town my H lives. She attends his school. Anyway, I had the feeling that I wanted to be sure that OW knew that her new beau was married, so I asked this 'sort of friend' to see if she could find out who OW is and make sure she knows that he is married. This friend agreed to do this task IF she could find out who OW is. Was this wrong? Should I just leave it alone? My decisions have been so clouded lately by my strong feelings of wanting my marriage to work and missing H.
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HI,<BR>I don't know your whole situation, but my first reaction was a definate OF Course she should know!!! I would certainly want to know if it were me. No one should be made to live a life of lies and deceit, including those of us who were cheated on. However, you should be prepared for the definate possibility that she knows and doesn't care if he is married. Some women have no morals that way, or think they are too "in love" to stop, or have been told a pack of fiction about how bad the marriage or wife is... you get the picture.<P>Best of luck.
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Good point Jenny. I have thought that she probably knows. H might even be living with her. I just think that if there is a small possibility that she doesn't know, I'll make sure she finds out. It won't get me my husband back, but I'm not sure at this point what will.
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