Found out Aug 13 that my H was having an affair for nearly a year-whe called me. my teenage sons heard the entire conversation...Jena, lucky you caught him in the chat room-wish I would've been as smart. never suspected a thing-he was playing hearts whenever I walked in-started with phone sex, found the bill-he never did it again-then inernet porn-cauth him, never did it again, then emailing a girl he worked with telling her about his lousy sex life-then the chat room. found out this was his second affair-1st one was when my mother was dying of cancer-I was grieving the loss of my mom, he was greiving the loss of his girlfriend. Met them both online. Had sex with her in my house when my kids were sleeping and I was away on business. She was at the ball fields watching my youngest son play ball. She left her H and moved 10 mins away from us to be near my H. I kicked him out-gave him a yr to get his act together-don't know why. I love him, cannot belive this is my H of 21 yrs. Who is this stranger? Now his family is treating my like a leper.

So you just kicked him out last month? Where is he living, do you have contact with him? Are you going to counsoling?<BR>Have you talked to the kids about this if they overheard?<P>TopCat

<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by TCat:<BR><B>So you just kicked him out last month? Where is he living, do you have contact with him? Are you going to counsoling?<BR>Have you talked to the kids about this if they overheard?<BR>His family part doesn't suprise me.<P>TopCat</B><HR></BLOCKQUOTE><P>

HIS family is treating YOU like a leper? Do they know he's a serial adulterer? <P>I'm sorry about your kids. THeir pain must be so very intense.<P><P>------------------<BR>Belle, Domestic Goddess