This replies to your post on the "Guidelines" thread (trying to keep that thread focused on the guidelines in general).<P>Sounds like you're doing a terrific Plan A - taking a critical look at yourself AND meeting an important EN of your H's as a result. Don't stop here - maybe there are additional changes you can make that will knock his socks off? But please, be mindful of STDs.<P>And yes - avoid LBs like the plague - they ARE a plague of sorts.<P>Remember, Plan A is more about you than him. You're doing a 180 - demonstrate all your improvements. It's not enough to CLAIM improvements. You have to demonstrate them.<P>Finally - PTC. Patience, time, consistency.<P>Good Luck,<BR>WAT