Hi,<BR> I just wanted to post in INFIDELITY because I miss posting here just wanted to tell you all to be grateful that you are lucky enough to be posting here and not in the PREGNANCY/ CHILD forum like I am now.<BR> Be grateful because my H got ow pregnant and NOW he wants me back. Pray that they come back to you without this baggage. I hope that none of you ever find yourselves there. <BR> I don't mean to say that my pain is worse than yours, but imagine if OP was pregnant? I am numb and just can't handle this pain. <BR> oh, how i wish the world would end like everyone is saying it will. i'm sorry for my pessimistic attitude, I know that is the last thing we all need.<P> God bless.

(((((((((((((((julia)))))))))))<P>I have been thinking about all of you on that board recently...I was browsing there about two nights ago, and the depth of pain there is so heart-wrenching, it brought me to tears.<P>I believe that your pain IS worse than ours, because you must now forever cope with the reality of OW with OC...so hard to bear. I just don't know how to ease your pain.<P>I keep telling myself that it will never happen to me,because H had a vasectomy, but she has such control over him, I wouldn't be surprised if he got it reversed...he is in another country, so I would never know.<P>I just wanted to send you lots of love and healing light, and I know you will be able to endure this awful trial, it will take time is all. Reading many of the posts from women whose H's other children have been born, there is such strength and resilience and acceptance there. You will be there too one day...<P>Love and light,<P>Jacky

Jacky,
Back in the days when I was posting in the divorce forum, I remember reading your posts and I found so much strength and courage when I read them. Before I was in the pregnancy forum, I remember keeping you in my prayers. I remember you posting something about how the user name Nina was already taken so you chose Nina II, I thought that was funny.
Yea, it is pretty tough being on that side of the forum. I never thought I'd be there. I didn't even know that forum existed here at marriage builders until someone suggested I go there. Well, I am so thankful for this site, it has been a real source of comfort... except one person who has posted as an imposter OW and has us up in arms with her hostile words. If you don't mind, keep us in your prayers, we are really broken over there.<p> Thanks for the big hug! Here's one for you!

(((((((Jacky)))))))))