well if anyone knows my story.....I got a new twist. The H and I been working things out for the last 3 weeks. But, a few night ago he told me something that just made everything worse for me. Well, he may of fathered a child with a 17 yr old. He has known for alomst 2 months now. They used protection and she at the time said she was 6 weeks along when she told him. And he said they had sex 3 weeks in to it. So....supposively she was already pregnent before they had sex. BUT...condoms are NOT %100 and due dates are not either.
I was just starting to trust him again. I had gotten fixed because he didnt want anymore children. But I did want one more. I dont know what I will do IF it turns out to be his. I cant handle this........please help me!!!

I am sorry for your pain. How awful it must be for you.<p>There is a board here called Pregnancy/Child, and there are some there who are in your position. I am sure they will be able to give you some comforting words and advice.<p>Love and light,<p>Jacky

Unloved,
I unfortunately find myself at the Pregnancy/child forum because what you think might be the case with your H is actually the case with mine. I am so sorry. When I read your post, it reminded me of myself posting here and not knowing where to turn. Your post brought me to tears. If that is the case with your h, that he is the father of the oc, we are here for you. There are some great women and men over there who are going through this nightmare together.
However,
I pray that I don't see you there.
God Bless.

When will you know if it's his or not?<p>
<blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr>Originally posted by unloved71:
<strong>well if anyone knows my story.....I got a new twist. The H and I been working things out for the last 3 weeks. But, a few night ago he told me something that just made everything worse for me. Well, he may of fathered a child with a 17 yr old. He has known for alomst 2 months now. They used protection and she at the time said she was 6 weeks along when she told him. And he said they had sex 3 weeks in to it. So....supposively she was already pregnent before they had sex. BUT...condoms are NOT %100 and due dates are not either.
I was just starting to trust him again. I had gotten fixed because he didnt want anymore children. But I did want one more. I dont know what I will do IF it turns out to be his. I cant handle this........please help me!!!</strong><hr></blockquote><p>[ November 02, 2001: Message edited by: confused-cious:says ]</p>