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#40869 12/12/99 02:11 PM
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Hello everybody, How has yall weedend been?<P>I have done really well this week with not calling the W. she has called me several times. just for various things. She called yesterday and asked me if I would go and cash her pay check(HA HA. No, I didnt do it. She called this morning and asked if I would watch the baby while she goes to church. I will do that.<P>Anyway The kids will be baptised today. I'm going to that also. I'm just going to be as cheerfl as possible. <P>------------------<BR>brownphdt<P>

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You GO BOY!!! Good for you...I am so proud!!!! Keep on this course!!<P>Let us know how the Baptism goes!!<P>HUGS,<P>Sheba

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Keep up the good work.<P>You're doing great.<P>Remember: we can't do God's work for Him.<P>Enjoy your childrens baptism.<P>NO LOVEBUSTERS!!!!!<P>Bill<P>------------------<BR>BB<BR>

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B-<BR>Good luck to you, You sound good. Sending you good vibes.<P>Genie

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Well I'm back from the baptism. It went good.<P>W didn't say much to me at all. She even almost didn't let me hold the baby when the water was poured over his head. She grabed him from me, and then the priest said " dad you get in here and hold him ". <P>After it was over she was crying. I rubbed her back and she just glared at me. I asked if she was alright. She just said " YES PAUL I'M FINE ".<P>I left it at that. She also has put up the Christmas tree. Remember the last good talk we had? She said that she wanted me there to be with the kids to decorate, Guess she changed her mind.<P>------------------<BR>brownphdt<P>

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Hey again, W called a little bit ago on her cell phone. She called to say thanks for being there, at the babtism.<P>I told her thanks for letting me be a part of it, bsfore we left there. She told me then " its up to you if you want to be a part of this or not". Why didn't she just saty thanks then. Why does she have to be snotty, when I;m around then later call to say thanks, or sorry for being a pain in the butt.<P>Seems that she trys to be hateful when I'm around, then when I'm not she trys to be nice<P>CONFUSED LITTLE LADY.<P>------------------<BR>brownphdt<P>

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Page 3 of the handbook. Do whatever you can to confuse your mate!!! [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>You're doing great though. Just hang in there.<P>Lori

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lostva, you will have to explain that one. I'm kinda dense...lol<P><P>------------------<BR>brownphdt<P>

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Hi Brownphd -<P>Lostva means the handbook that the betrayers use.....cuz they all pretty much do and say the same thing!!!! (Joke)<P>Yes, you are soooo right - She is a very confused lady!!! <P>Are you starting to see it more clearly now that you have taken that step back?<P>It's easier to be nice when she is on the phone or wants something....In person - there is a lot of guilt and anger for herself that is thrown on to you....<P>Hang in there and KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK!! This is very good for you!!!<P>HUGS,<P>Sheba

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Thanks Sheba, but I think she wrote that cofuse your spouse chapter.<P> I havent talked to her at all today and dont plan on it. She can call me(probably wont though)<P>------------------<BR>brownphdt<P>


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