Since mid June H had become distant. He does have a pain pill problem so thought he was hiding that again(a problem since his heart attack). Checked his voice mail and heard a message saying "thought I might see you today, but you must have had a late night". Iwas shocked to hear this(it was a women's voice). Kept my eyes and ears open from that day on. At times he was himself and other times he would just not come home(disappear for a short time and no one knew where he was. He would later return and say he left due to fights when there were none. By asking questions of others and checking cell phone bill realized he was involved with another woman. At times as many as 5 calls/day to her cell and house. These calls were at all timesof day/night and every day ofthe week. However none or few when he left the house. In early Sept he was more attentive and then suddenly left sept 12. Called and said ne needed space but still wanted to spend some time together but not live here. There wasn't a phone number for anyone to reach him at(including children) aside from his cell phone. He returned home mid oct. Took us away for long weekend to treat me like I deserved to be treated. Thought he had sopped contact with OW. Confronted him with A and cell phone bill shortly after.. WS denied all. Phne calls stopped to OW but he continues to do some work at her job. I canot go on any further without honesty about this A which he continues to deny. Any suggestions?

Hello,
I am in a similar situation. I found cell phone calls and a secret e-mail account to this other woman. I then went on a business meeting for 5 days and returned home to find a spare bed made differently fill with long curly hairs. He does not admit to anything. My I know in my heart what has happened. If you have a feeling you have it for a reason. How are things going now?