I recently learned that (in addition to a pornography addiction) my husband has been lying to me about his friendship with OW (who he still claims is just a friend, although he admits that he has been sexually attracted to her), and has confided in her about our relationship (not about his pornography addiction, of course). H is saying that he has no feelings for OW and has promised not to talk to her about our marriage anymore. But is that enough? Should I be concerned that he is not willing to break off his friendship with her entirely? I find it very hard to believe that he has no feelings for her - he develops strong emotional attachments very quickly when he is able to confide in someone. And he has lied to me about so many things - the pornography, his relationship with her, etc. <p>I don't want to appear unreasonable, but I am extremely uncomfortable with him continuing to have a relationship with a woman he has been emotionally intimate with and sexually attracted to. It seems like a recipe for disaster. Am I overreacting? HELP!