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#408983 12/10/01 03:50 AM
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I'll be brief...just found out husband is having affair. I love him and don't want to lose him...i want to work things out....am willing to forgive....<p>i need suggestions, praryers, hope, please please....i only know the anxiety is killing me inside right now................<p>thanks.<p>ppatch

#408984 12/10/01 10:36 AM
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Well, I would read everything I could on this site BEFORE I said anything to him about it...if he already knows that you know, don't say anything else until you have read around here about love busters and other's people's experiences...they will help you with how to handle this in a constructive way.<p>I am sorry for your pain. I know it's tearing you up but you're gonna come thru this okay. We're here for you...<p>If you can give some details about the sit (how long has it been going on? does he know you know? What does he say about it?), I and the others will probably be able to share more of our experiences that may be helpful to you.<p>Just know that we all wish you the best and pray for the recovery of your love and marriage. Keep us posted.

#408985 12/10/01 03:08 PM
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I haven't said anything else about it....i had dropped it...(externally)...but it's tearing me up inside......literally......<p>where do i start reading here? <p>there's so much....head me in the best right direction.<p>thanks. (situation going on for two months -- girl doesn't live in my town.).....he didn't tell me who she was...i found out.....<p>please please please help me..............<p>
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